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"A family based in the northern part of London is looking for an remarkable and experienced tutor to support their most junior child on his initial journey to becoming an English gentleman."

When reading this listing, you might naturally overlook the wording "beginning" as mere figurative language.

However, it may be the most important aspect of this distinctive job advert, as it aims to recruit a mentor for a 12-month-old.

Many of responses have already been sent in since the unidentified family published their search for the £180k-a-year tutor, who needs to be "an exceptional individual".

During the past few weeks, the advert has received attention in the media, with many asking why?

Forward-Thinking Method

The CEO, chief executive of Tutors International, which is supporting the family in their search, explained that notwithstanding early doubt, he found the concept "forward-looking", and "innovative".

When he spoke with the family, he mentioned they understood the unconventional aspect of their demand, and how young their son is.

However, they stated that they "didn't want to wait any longer" to hire a tutor, as they had held off until their older child was five, and by that stage "cultural conditioning had by then become established".

But what does the family refer to by "cultural bias"?

It's "all-encompassing", he replied. "How you eat, the manner you speak".

He said the firstborn had picked up "very nuanced, non-verbal cues" from the family, and had adopted their cultural habits. The family explained to him they did not want this pattern to repeat itself with their infant.

The intention: To hire a British tutor, who needs to speak with Received Pronunciation, to influence the baby right from the beginning.

Osmotic Learning

"Much of the education at the outset here is rather absorbed naturally," stated Adam.

It's through this subtle influence that the family are expecting the child will acquire the UK customs they want to instil.

He explained the tutor must be someone who went to "the appropriate educational institutions – similar types of schools as the family plan to send their son to".

"The tutor must be the right kind of person, they'll be performing things they don't even know they're doing, just naturally," he commented.

Expense Not a Factor

The family informed him the successful candidate should ideally also have familiarity of or enthusiasm in equestrian activities, alpine skiing, artistic pursuits and instrumental training so as to shape the child in a wide range of hobbies.

Additionally though, he stated the family wanted the tutor to enrol the child on a range of lessons so the child would be "equestrian training and learning an instrument by the time they are approximately three years old".

In the family's perspective, helping their son become a "UK sophisticate" will lead to achievement and open doors.

"Taking into account the advantages and disadvantages of that, because it's certainly a social class indicator," he notes.

However, notwithstanding all this guidance in "English culture", could the child pick up alleged cultural influence from the globally influenced family he lives with regardless?

"Absolutely", replied the CEO. "The parents understand this could fail, but they've simply adopted the perspective of, 'we should try and let's go as early as we can', because the cost of it is irrelevant," he said.

Overly Optimistic

A number of in the education sector who express these reservations.

Another CEO, chief executive of Blue Education, who supplies private tutors, wrote that "the development of embracing two identities, or in fact, forming one's identity, is something that must be grown into, not manufactured."

The expert wrote that he had emigrated from Asia to the United Kingdom at the age of 7 years old, and had been brought up understanding and embodying two backgrounds. He continued to learn at Cambridge University.

"The notion that one individual can serve as a living vessel of English culture, a person who can somehow impart the attributes of a English gentleman upon a one-year-old child, seems to me naive and unrealistic," he wrote.

"From my perspective, engaging a typically English tutor from early childhood will will not automatically achieve the outcome they desire.

"I wasn't provided with that kind of mentor, and however I have been lucky enough to live several of the experiences they desire for their son."

He added: "The reality is, cultural identity can not be forced from the outside; it must be embraced, and it must come from within."

Acquiring Englishness

Of course, Britishness is something the CEO thinks can be taught – and commercialized.

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